Chapter 7: The value of humility (paragraph 18)

We should speak gently and seriously with words that are weighty and restrained. We should be brief and reasonable in whatever we have to say and not raise our voices to insist on our own opinions. (From para. 18 of Ch. 7 of Saint Benedict's Rule, trans. by Patrick Barry, OSB, 1997.)

For some odd and delightful reason, Benedict's words are reading to me right now as advice for quietly approaching a nest of birds, or a very shy wild animal. Perhaps he's saying that my approach to life should be alert and respectful and self-controlled, so not as to scare away the possibility of relationship.